Foster's Store

 

A Tribute to Mike Arons

By Chris Aanstoos

On behalf of the Psychology Department, I'd like to send this brief memorial to Mike Arons, our former colleague, friend and mentor, who died on February 18.

As anyone who knew him would surely attest, Mike left a huge impact on all he touched. For the university, he founded a program in humanistic psychology when he arrived in 1967 to Chair the department. At that time West Georgia was a rather inconsequential place. He quickly turned it into a destination school for students and faculty from throughout the world.
Alumni from the Psych program then in turn transformed so much of the quality of the community, from the revitalization of the town square to the recycling program and the farmer's market. He also contributed greatly to the discipline of psychology itself, nurturing a humanistic perspective through serving in leadership positions in such organizations as the Division of Humanistic Psychology of the American Psychological Association, the International Human Science Research Association, and the Association for Qualitative Research in Psychology. That Mike should have won all the awards these and other organizations had to give should surprise no one. But that was never his aim. Indeed, the award with which he was most pleased was a plaque he was given "For Contributions to a Plaqueless Society"!

Ever the organizer/disorganizer, leader/anarchist, serious/playful, Mike embraced alterity in all its forms, pre-forms, and wild being. To the extent that one's eyes are a window to one's soul, it was easy to see Mike's soul. His eyes twinkled with sheer delight. He approached the world with the wonder of a child and got in return the benefit of living "full tilt, all-out, all the time" while also getting to live into a ripe old age and die peacefully with his wife and daughter by his side.

Even after his retirement, he continued to be invited to lecture at universities and conferences on several continents. I was just on a panel at a conference in Italy with him last June. Even more recently, he'd been lecturing annually in China on creativity and humanistic psychology, in the process re-introducing the Chinese academy to their own Taoist traditions.

But most of all, Mike was a singular teacher, and it was his inspiration of generations of students that is his greatest accomplishment. He had written of one of his own teachers that: "he spoke to a part of me I was yet to
discover."* Yes, that is what Mike practiced so skillfully as well.
Dialectically, hermeneutically, intuitively, whimsically, lyrically, magically, Mike called forth the best in his students, the best they had yet to discover in themselves. He loved teaching, cherished his students and was fortunate to receive in return waves of appreciation from them, including last year's Psychology alumni reunion, where the warmth of the reception by his former students touched him very deeply.

He retired in 2000, then returned to teach one more course, during the Fall
2007 semester, just before his death. A course on the Embodiment of Creativity, the final lecture of which contrasted the neurotic tendency to avoid tension by retreating from life, seeking some illusory "return to the womb" homeostasis, versus the creative mode of living life fully, openly, embracing its conflicts without ambivalence. His examples? Dancing.
Lovemaking. That was Mike's final lesson. That was Mike.

For further information about Mike, and a sample of his publications, refer to the link at the Psychology Department's web site:
http://www.westga.edu/~psydept/arons_writings.html

A memorial service will take place at Kennedy Chapel Friday, Feb 22, at 4:00 p.m., followed by a gathering at the Psychology Department in Melson Hall.

Perhaps an epilogue is this passage from a poem he had written:

"The night is dark,

But what of that?

That's home as well

Old Alley Cat.

You've done your work

And worth a grin,

A passing tear,

A slug of gin,

And wait,

The tricks all turned,

The moment pure

Now dearly earned."

from "Mating of the Gods" by Mike Arons

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* published in Journal of Humanistic Psychology, Vol. 32, No. 1, Winter 1992. VERY worth a look.

 
 
 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

    

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

September 7, 2007

Homecoming is September 29, 2007

Wouldn't it be amazing if Mr. Foster was looking down on all this? What do you think he would say if he knew that former residents were organizing in a way that might just memorialize the good feeling we all had for him forever, or at least, in a way that would live on as long as they play a game called football at the University of West Georgia?

That's our opportunity here. In its efforts to raise the needed money for a new football stadium on the West Georgia campus, the School is seeking donations. They need another 4 million dollars to realize the dream.

I know they will reach that goal. You and I can help. If just a few of us get together, we can help them reach that goal, and at the same time, pay tribute to Mr. Foster and Ethel.

This is so neat!

If just a few of us commit to pledging a little something a year for 5 years, the school will permanently attach a brass plate with the words "Foster's Store" on the chair back of two seats. s

Think about that. Picture it. Years from now, somebody walking into a West Georgia football game and sitting down in one of those chairs, seeing the words, "Foster's Store" and wondering what it means.

I can think of other chair names relating to my time at West Georgia, but first things first. All we need here is a total of ten people including myself to make that pledged of $ 100 a year for 5 years (Or 20 people pledging $50), and make it in the name of this "Stadium Chair named for Foster's Store."

A few people have already voiced their enthusiasm for this endeavor, other store mates are already giving in ways well beyond the scope of this individually small gesture. But if you are like me, and need a little push sometimes, consider yourself urged to join us in this small way to help out the university and immortalize the name of Foster's Store at the same time.

Listen, if you are attracted to this idea and would like to be part of it, just click on the new West Georgia Mascot logo below, an email message will appear with "I want to Help - Stadium Seats" highlighted in the subject line. Just use it to reply to me that you want to help, and I'll make sure you get a pledge card.

 

 

 

 

The purpose of this website will continue to include the usual insanity, fear not, but we all need to pick up the pace here and see where it will lead.  See, I just bought some new software and it's pretty durn powerful and I'm testing it out and will be using the Foster's Store site here as its first guinea pig.  Any ideas about what you'd like on this site,....PLEASE!!!!  let me know. 

 

contact me Wayne Lankford welank@bellsouth.net

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Doug & Jan Putnam have added a whole bunch of photos.  I know there are more out there.

Just click on the Ranch and be taken to the new Gallery.

 

circa 1970

New Photo Gallery

New Friend's of Foster's Page from

 Bill Freeman -  Click the Draft Card

 

Pictures of Building

News December 2006

Store mate O'kelley has New Webpage

Click on Bob's Picture to go to his website.

Click on the peace sign and turn up the sound! You'll be taken to a different site.

Spotlight Award October 2006

     

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MILOVILLE UPDATE

       

Miloville Creators Lankford, Carmichael, and Harrell, are joined by Catwoman during recent

Research and Development Sabbatical In Dahlonega Georgia. 

The Miloville book has a planned release date sometime in Spring of 2007. Stay Tuned!

Oh, Milo has his own webpage now.  It's just getting started.  Give it some time.

www.miloville.com

West Georgia Plans Construction of new Football Stadium

Stadium Seats With Foster's Store Name on Brass Plaques Proposed.

 Participation Opportunity! Click here!

            

     AMAZING!!!

Yes, it is amazing that old pictures  still keep showing up.

Click here to see the  "NEW GALLERY"

            

Get ready for Foster's Store Follow Up Book!

Get Ready for:

M I L O V I L L E

      

July 15, 2006

 Sycamore Place Gallery & Studios 

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Readings by Store mates and other stuff.

June 24, 2006 Atlanta GA 7 PM

A Capella Books

484-C Moreland Ave. NE

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Fosterians at A Capella book signing June 24, 2006

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Readers Comments ( Click Here )

Mike Arons Checks In

The First Atlanta GA Book Signing was  held at the Jimmy Carter Presidential Library  June 17th at 3 PM. 

Picture Gallery (click here)

 

Jimmy Carter Presidential Library

More Pictures to come.

Click here for Jay Ball's Contribution

 

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  Lankford & Carmichael

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The First Book signing was April 15, 2006 at Horton's Bookstore in Carrollton GA.  Pictures Here!

 

Milo thinks there's a movie here.  To find out why, click on this sentence!

If you've had a chance to read the whole book and would like to post a review or a short comment about the book, click HERE!  A blank email document will appear with "Here's a New Review" in the subject line.  When I get a few of them, I will post them here for all.  

 

                                                                                                

Foster’s Store

 

A subculture of the

times and of

West Georgia College

 

Some partied like there was no tomorrow

and for some,

there was no tomorrow

Semi-sociological deja vu

by

The surviving lab rats

 

Foster’s Store is about coming of age. It is as

much about wild parties and college life as it is

about a place in history where a generation

had it all, but at the same time, “all” turned out

to be so fragile and fleeting for so many. It

wasn’t just another generation discovering its

    collective consciousness, but a “new “generation     

fully equipped with new flavors of knowledge

and circumstances. We searched for or

stumbled into realities, which put the truths we

                     were fed and raised on by loving parents from                       

the Greatest Generation into question. Almost

every truth we’d ever known was now in doubt.

We were a generation raised on fear, taught to

dive under school desks to survive a nuclear

Armageddon and to trust in God if nothing else

worked. We grew up with it, we toed the

company line, but we didn't like the feeling. The

churches said it was OK to kill a commie for

Christ, but for some reason love ended up

feeling better to us than hate. Where did our

parents go wrong? Something had to give and

a lot of things did.

Birth control pills made the sexes equal. The

ways we got our kicks were constantly changing.

At some point out there at Foster’s store

there were more people back from a war than

would ever go. That had never happened

before. The luck of a draw could kill you or save

you. There were things that were inspiring to

some and downright dangerous to others.

 

Then,. some say it's all a bunch of nonsense.

 

         Disclaimer    

 

This is a book of essays from a whole bunch

of people and the subject matter is from a

a long time ago. A team of investigative

reporters, let alone archaeologists, could not

certify the accuracy of events recounted in

much of this volume. What you have here are

our contributors best recollections, colored

by powerful emotions, of some of the best- and-

worst years of their lives. Therefore, Oak

Valley Press, Inc. disclaims responsibility for

any mishap that might befall any person or

institution as a consequence of these faded

memories being shocked into life by print.

While we are unaware that reading this

volume will produce dangerous side effects

down the road of time, we must warn our

readers of a spreading rumor that eating

certain pages of this tome will cause its masticators

to experience effects not unlike the

accounts described herein.

Crazy idea! However, we have warned you

and therefore deny liability to potential

eaters of this book for any debility should you

disregard our warning and eat the thing

anyway. In Fact, Bon Appetit!

 

        

 

 

 

                               

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